Wow, so much of that feels like it was pulled out straight from my mind, hahah. I do agree with just about everything you said, but I always have to keep reminding myself that, like you said, it is like that for them, too. Maybe I’m just too selfish to remember that all the time.It’s the same for me. I don’t know, maybe it’s because most people shy away from or are uninterested in things I put so much value on. And it can get so frustrating, considering that most of those people are either unwilling or incapable of openly listening and trying to understand. Because of this, I think it would be absolutely wonderful to find someone who truly understands most of me. However, at the same time, I’ve always been kind of afraid of the idea of forever, mainly because of being well-aware that people change, myself especially.I’ve actually definitely been thinking about this lately. I used to think, “how can you be with someone like yourself? Wouldn’t that get so boring?” But as time goes on, I’m really realizing that I’m not, normal and that, and this is so cliche, I’m different from most other people. I get so happy when I meet someone like me, because that’s rare for me. So I guess I don’t really know what I want.what would you do if you found someone of the opposite gender (or the same depending on your sexuality) who had the same personality, beliefs and views as you? let’s say this person agreed with what you said. if you found this person attractive as well, would you want to be with them? or would you rather have someone who was opposite and could make up for what you lacked?
Yeah. I see what you mean. When I’m at my lunch table or whatever, I always seem to get annoyed so easily with people who are so different than I am. So, I think it would be interesting to meet someone who was like me, because I think it would be good to talk about our lives and just agree so much. When I hear as much as an “I know!”, I’ll feel grateful maybe someone understands me. So many people just see what’s on the outside, and never get to know me as well as they could…
People will never know if someone is worth getting to know if they never try. And I agree, I put value on so many things people find pointless. But I am sure it is the other way around for them. It is when people don’t put effort into relationships and friendships, I get disappointed. People try hard to impress, but most never look deep enough to see how hard the other person is trying to fit in…. while still wanting to be noticeably unique.
something to ponder
